For men with curly hair who want some control without compromising there look then the best product I've found is Davines Invisible Styling Cream. This product conditions and adds a little bit of wight to the hair, keeping the curl more uniform and less puffy. Invisible Styling Cream wont go hard or crunchy but rather it stays soft all day. A great alternative to this product is simply using conditioner as a styling product. Once hair is towel dried just add (a little at a time) some conditioner and let air dry.